(picture from colourlovers)
One of the fun parts to planning a wedding is choosing the wedding colors. However, this can be a daunting task. You want to be true to yourself and your passions, but you also don’t want that “oh my goodness, what were they thinking” reaction from your guests. (Or, maybe you do!) :)
Below are some tools to get you on the right track to wedding color bliss.
The Color Scheme Designer is a great tool to get you started. Make sure to pay attention to the top left of the screen where you can adjust the different types of color combos you would like such as “mono”, “contrast”, “triad”, etc.
Martha Stewart has some more information about the color wheel
here.
Brides features a Color Studio with a “spinner” tool that you literally click to spin and it shows different fun color combos.
Another fun way to choose your colors would be to explore the paint swatch section at a home store.
A couple of tips to keep in mind:
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Your wedding color scheme should bring out your best features. Since your wedding décor will serve as the backdrop for many of your wedding photos, it is essential that you select a scheme that won’t clash with your complexion.
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Choose a strong color that can stand up to the competition of the other elements of your color scheme. A color selection with a darker value makes for the ideal primary color selection.
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Think lighter or darker when selecting accent colors. Small touches of brown, black or cream in your color scheme will draw more attention to your chosen color scheme.
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Paste your paint-chip palette to a piece of paper and stash it away in your wedding planner. You can use it to help you in selecting linens, stationery and other decorations for your event.
(tips from ehow.com)
(Fendi Bauguettes from Ragstyles)
How did you choose your wedding colors?
January 29, 2010 at 11:08am
Yesterday I listed the top 11 complaints that guests have when attending a wedding. Today, I will tell you ways to overcome these complaints and make sure your guest have a great time at your wedding.
1. The DJ was obnoxious or played lousy music.
When searching for the perfect DJ, ask them about the next couple events they are doing. Check in on these events and see how they are while on the job. I am in no way suggesting you crash a wedding reception - just stop in and stand in the back to observe.
2. The music was TOO LOUD!
If possible, have a lounge area set up away from the dance floor so that guests who want to be in a quieter area can do so. Also, if you notice that the music is too loud, simply ask the DJ to turn it down a little.
3. Speeches were TOO LONG and we could not decipher the words.
Be sure the DJ or band you hire does a thourough sound check before every event so the microphone is clear.
As far as the speeches being to long, don’t worry about it. If your BM or MOH want to go on and on about how wonderful you and your new husband are, why stop them? 
4. We did not know anyone at our table.
I don’t think this is a valid complaint. As long as you are have a couple together or two friends together, it is good to allow your guests to get to know each other. Who knows? Maybe you will be making a new freindship!
5. I resented paying a dollar to dance with the Bride.
This is a touchy subject. If the “dollar dance” is a tradition in your area, guests expect it. However, in some areas, it is not common to see the dollar dance at weddings, so it is best to stay awa from it. Know your area.
6. We stood forever in the receiving line.
We can conquer nubmer 6 and number 10 all at once. Two alternative options to a long receiving line are: 1. Release the pews yourselves. This is a great alternative as it allows you to quicky thank each guest for coming, but keep things moving. 2. The other option is to send the guests straight to the reception. Then after the two of you are done eating dinner, go to each table and personally greet them.
7. We had too much time to kill between ceremony and reception.
Sometimes, this is unavoidable, especially with Catholic Ceremonies. If possible, schedule your cocktail hour or reception as soon as possible after the ceremony.
8. The centerpiece was so large that I could not see or talk to guests.
Be sure your centerpieces are low enough that guests can see over them or are tall enough that guests can see over them.
9. I was offended I had to pay for drinks.
You are asking guests to travel and spend a full day away from their home, jobs, or daily lives to come celebrate your big day. Additionally, they are most likely bringing you a very nice gift. Please do not ask guests to pay for things at your wedding. If you do not have the budget for a full open bar, maybe just serve beer and wine or just offer one specialty drink. Another option is to serve just wine with dinner. A finla option is to forego the alcoholic drinks completely. This may be hard, but it is the right thing to do.
10. The Bride and Groom did not stop by to say hello.
See number 6.
11. I was never thanked for my gift.
Simple. Write thank you note. Do it in a timely manner. It’s the right thing to do!
January 28, 2010 at 10:36am
The goal of a reception is not only to celebrate the couple’s marriage, but to also thank guests for coming to support and be a part of the day. This leads to the second goal of a reception: to provide a atmosphere in which the wedding guests are able to have a GREAT time!
In order to have a great reception, we need to understand what bad experience guests of had at a wedding.
According to The Knot, here are the top eleven complaints from wedding guests in no particular order:
1. The DJ was obnoxious or played lousy music.
2. The music was TOO LOUD!
3. Speeches were TOO LONG and we couldn’t decipher the words.
4. We didn’t know anyone at our table.
5. I resented paying a dollar to dance with the Bride.
6. We stood forever in the receiving line.
7. We had too much time to kill between ceremony and reception.
8. The centerpiece was so large that I couldn’t see or talk to guests.
9. I was offended I had to pay for drinks.
10. The Bride and Groom didn’t stop by to say hello.
11. I was never thanked for my gift.
What are your thoughts? Have you every experienced any of these?
Tomorrow,part 2 of Tips For a Great Reception will talk about how to overcome these issues.
by April
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